"BEEF UP YOUR RELATIONSHIP"

BEEF UP YOUR RELATIONSHIP IN "2009"

"It's 2009 but nothing has really changed

Nothing will ever really change

It's just us that need to change inside

So change can effect itself on the outside"

Relationship is everything.Love is everything-the one single source of unexplainable hapiness.A crappy relationship can terribly ruin your career.So also, a little neglect like forgeting your partner's birthday can ruin a week or even a month because she'd whine over it.And then, it is really a bad thing!

Here is a summary of a few tips:

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  Don't forget the power of surprise gifts(apart from the birthday or special days)


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  Remember to always observe and sincerely compliment your partner when he/she gets a new cloth or wears a beautiful hairdo or dress


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  Don't wait for signs of dryness befor taking her out on another date-swimming,restaurant,theatre,concert,picnic-.Make sure it's never thesame place all the time.


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  Take care of your appearance.Spend a little more time and money to dazzle him/her with your appearance.


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  Exercise regularly and maintain an attractive size.


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  Keep your breath great.


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  It's 2009,keep your promises to her also.

HAVE A LOVE-FUL NEW YEAR!

...the first and basic principle of attracting women!

Being Mysterious…..the first and basic principle of attracting women

Remember how many times you’ve heard the expression:

"mysterious stranger"

" I really want to get to know you more"

Being enigmatic makes a person tick. Someone you can read like an open book lacks that essential quality and is therefore less attractive at first glance.

“People are attracted to mystery”

A busy person always seems attractive. You simply wish to know more. And in trying to know more, you find an interest level that you didn't find in those that offer you everything on a plate.

To be successful and attractive when dating it pays to keep something in reserve

“By being a challenge to someone who wants to get to know you and by making them work for it, your chances of success in the dating game are so much higher”

It is worth noting however that enigma and mystery are very different from being stubborn and moody. Not knowing about your life and what makes you tick is one thing. Being downright secretive is something completely different.

Here are some key tips to being enigmatic and mysterious:

1. At work or with friends, don't bore the office with every opinion you can muster.




2. Always keep something back when relating a story - why and how and when are details for later




3. Don't announce every plan you make. Keep some things to yourself for a while
   




4. Do not phone people, let them call you
   




5. Don't always return calls and never instantly
   




6. Keep your private life private. It is not open for general discussion and debate
   




7. Don't be too available but don't explain why you are not available either
   




8. Keep people guessing
   




9. Making interested parties think they are not the only person interested in you ups the ante and increases your desirability
   




10. Don't reply to emails and text messages at weekends
    




11. If you are using a dating service, don't reply to emails and messages at weekends
    




12. Be busy without giving details of what you are doing
    




13. Break plans occasionally without giving too much away
    




14. When you do meet up be entertaining and fascinating without giving every detail away
    




15. Never discuss ex partners and refuse to be drawn on the subject
    




16. Use an evasive enigmatic smile to answer questions to great effect
    




17. Even when people beg you to know more, keep them guessing
    




18. Never be too available, your diary is always semi-full as far as anyone is concerned
    




19. Mention you were with 'some people' but say little else on the subject when relating a tale
    




20. Let people do the running and don't do the chasing unless necessary
    




21. Have different groups of friends who you don't mix together
    




22. To be highly effective, create the desire initially then ration it afterwards. They will treat you like a drug, craving more due to the great times they have when they do eventually get to see you
    




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    Learn key expressions like "oh I have been really busy", "wow its been crazy", "I have lots of plans this week", "my diary is really full" and "Oh I have been doing so many things" without giving more away
    
    Be a challenge!
    
    Never be an open book!
    
    Make people work to get to know you!
    
    Being mysterious takes practice and takes time to get right. Once you do so and are comfortable in not being in constant communication with people they will soon desire to know more.
    It requires a fine balancing trick however because if you are too evasive, people will get fed up and move on!
    
    AVOID DOING WHAT MAKES SENSE,DO WHAT WORKS!!!

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