What would dating be without flirting?

Are You A Flirt?

"If you are, you know it and are secretly proud of the fact. It is sexy when you flirt and people like it".

Flirting means giving people attention,that is smiling, touching, whispering. In the wrong circumstances it will get you fired. There is a gulf between flirting and unwanted sexual advances so BEWARE!

Key indicators of flirting: The one to keep your eye on the most is "mirroring". Mirroring is when someone copies your body movements whilst retaining eye contact. Others are-

• Eye Contact
  Pupils are dilated and eye contact is maintained
  Eye contact combined with an arched eye brow
  Any form of winking
  Rapid eye movement and blinking
  Eye contact where the gaze is held longer than usual. Men normally look away.

• Hair and Mouth
  Playing with hair in a stroking or toying motion
  Eye contact whilst playing with hair
  Touching your hair at any time
  Lots of smiling, open mouthed and teeth flashing

• Lip licking
  Puckering lips in a simulated kiss form
  Any form of touch of the lips or teeth with tongue
  
• Body Movement
  The thrusting of chest or breasts outwards whilst holding your gaze
  The copying of your posture - mirroring
  Holding your gaze whilst moving to music
  Using a posture with legs crossed towards you
  Leaning in towards you whilst holding your gaze
  Open legged posture facing you
  The display of flesh of arm or thigh

• Touching
  They will want to touch you and will reach out to do so with some excuse
  They will offer to place food in your mouth as if feeding you
  They will play with their hands and then with yours
  The Way they Speak
  Their tone and speed of conversation mirrors your own
  Lots of laughter and questioning tones
  
  In a group, you are singled out by this person for attention even in general conversation and questions. This happened to me in New York and I was taken aback how obvious it was.
  
  The main thing to remember with flirting is that it is fun and so much more so when you are receptive to it and understand when it is happening to you. The best flirtatious moments will always take you by surprise.