The Psychology of The Woman Species

A Secret Women Know But Men Don't
By David DeAngelo

They make her run-All those great intentions and emotional dedication from men.They actually cause the man feeling them to do things that make her go away.It sucks!!!

"...if a woman isn't ATTRACTED to a man, all of his attempts to confess his love, convince her to like him, and court her BACKFIRES."

I'm always fascinated by the idea that we humans don't always understand the message that we're communicating to others...So often we think that because we WANT to communicate a message , others are going to NATURALLY understand what we're trying to say.

Have you ever seen a guy in a foreign car that has wheels on it that cost more than the car itself... with his stereo blasting... and a muffler that somehow AMPLIFIES the raw sound of the 4-cylinder motor...?Have you ever thought to yourself "I don't think that car is communicating the message to women that he thinks it is"...?Yea, I have too.Well here's the deal:

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If you do something to "let a woman know how you feel"... but she isn't ATTRACTED to you, then it's going to backfire.It's going to trigger a feeling that [I'd] call the "Instant Ewww".The Instant Ewww is just as powerful as the physical and emotional response of ATTRACTION.

Once a woman feels it, YOU'RE DONE.It's over.It's like hammering a RAILROAD SPIKE into the coffin.Once a woman feels the Instant Ewww, she will start behaving differently.In short, she'll disappear.

Men make this mistake over and over again in life because they're doing what MAKES SENSE to them.I mean, If you have a friend, and you like them, and you want to make them like you more... and you do some nice things for them, they will probably like you more.

On the other hand...If you have a woman that you "like" in a romantic way, and she doesn't "feel it" for you, and you do something nice for her because you want HER to like you more, it will BACKFIRE... and she will not only NOT like you more, she will most likely distance herself from you.Guys think that they need to communicate when they like a woman... as if that's part of the necessary process of getting a girl.In their minds, it goes like this:

Like her>Tell her you like her>She likes you

Well remember... if you follow this pattern yourself with women who aren't ATTRACTED to you, then it's going to BACKFIRE.If she's not into you, then it goes like THIS:She thinks of you as a friend>You tell her you like her>She gets the "Instant Ewwws" and never wants to be around you again...

THE ANSWER:There are really TWO answers to this problem.

The first answer is what to do if you're in a situation where you like a particular girl, but you don't know if she likes you back.

DON'T GET HEAVY WITH HER.

Don't buy her a big gift and write a love letter...

Don't send her ten dozen roses to her work with a not that says "From your secret admirer".

Don't call her three times a day.

DON'T CONFESS YOUR LOVE for her.

"If you want to know how she feels about you, KISS HER"

Use "The Kiss Test" .As a rule of thumb, don't get heavier than HER. Use SIGNALS from her to find out how she feels...Asking a woman if she's interested in you in a romantic way, or if you are "her type" will actually DESTROY the chances that she'll like you.

The SECOND answer is to not get into this particular situation in the FIRST PLACE. Avoid it entirely.And how does one do that?One does that by creating ATTRACTION from the beginning.One does that by understanding the dynamics of how and why women have the physical and emotional response of ATTRACTION triggered.One does that by knowing what you're doing FROM THE BEGINNING.

Seducing A Man...

How to Seduce a Man

"Always...The trick is to leave the guy unsatisfied…yes you read it right. UNsatisfied is the word over here. Leave him intrigued so that he craves for more. That is what will make him even more attracted towards you"

Follow these "tips to seduce a guy" and be an expert:

Create the Right Environment:Seduction is best done is a sensual atmosphere. The best environment for seduction is candle lit dinner and soft music.

Confidence Counts:Men like women who are confident about themselves. So straighten those shoulders, put your nose up in the air and walk with that confident swagger. Be careful not to overdo it else it may look arrogant instead of confident.

Eye Contact:Eyes are the windows to our soul. Lock him in a captivating glance and make sure you "speak" with your eyes. Maintain a steady gaze. Do not gawk or stare.

Play Hard to Get: But don't be so cold that the guy loses interest in you.

Looks that kill:Slip on a sensuous dress, let your locks fall on your slender shoulders, wear those dangerously high stilettos and apply some make up. Accentuate your attractive features like eyes, lips or neck. If you find yourself gorgeous in the mirror, consider half of your job done!

Modulate your Tone:Nothing is more seductive than a gentle yet sensuous tone. Whisper something in his ear like " You look chic in blue" in that seductive tone. Flirt!Flirt by all means. Blink your eyes to look vulnerable yet hard to get. You can slightly touch him on the shoulder or the wrist while laughing. Again, don't overdo it. Men don't like being pushed. Engage in a good conversation and give your viewpoints instead of nodding your head constantly to his.

Smell Good:Make sure you smell good. Apply a nice perfume that is not too strong. In order to make it last long, do layering. This means, you layer yourself with the same smell in different ways. For instance if your perfume smells of rose, put some drops of rose essential oils in your bathwater. Apply some powder that smells of rose and finally apply the perfume. DO NOT spray the perfume directly on yourself. Spray it in front of you and immediately walk through the mist. This makes sure it is not concentrated on some places and you smell good overall.